Emotions your student may experience:
Enthusiasm
Apprehension
(due to new surroundings)
Fear
(fear of the unfamiliar)
Loneliness
(especially if they know no one when coming to UF)
Homesick
Nervousness
What you can do to help:
Encourage
your son or daughter to attend class regularly
Encourage
your student to establish good study habits now
Avoid
asking if your student is homesick. Most times this homesickness passes.
Listen
to your student
While
it would be nice to see them again so soon, encourage your student to stay on
campus and not go home for the first four weeks. This is when many friendships are formed.
Refer
your student to the many support services available if needed.
Important
dates this month:
August 16 – Residence halls open for students attending
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August 16-19 – New Student Orientation (The Oiler Experience)
August 20 – Classes begin at 7 a.m.
August 27 - Last day to add a class or section
September
Emotions your student may experience:
What you can do to help:
Listen
to your student
If your
student is ill, encourage him/her to visit the Health Center
Ask
your student how things are going
Encourage
your student to make an appointment with the course instructor if he/she is
having difficulty in a course
Send a
care package or card (e-card will do) to let your student know you are thinking
about them
Show
interest in the student’s school and ask open ended questions
If your
student is having roommate problems, encourage him/her to speak with his/her
resident assistant (RA)
Encourage
your student to utilize the Oiler Success Center to discuss adjustment issues
Encourage
your student to attend Major Fest
Important
September dates:
Emotions your student may experience:
Overwhelmed
(trying to balance demands of school and extracurricular activities)
Disappointment
(grades may not be as high as those of high school)
Nervousness
(mid-terms)
Anxious
Comfort
(adjusting to “home away from home”)
What you can do to help:
If your
student is struggling with a class or classes, make sure you encourage them to
utilize the tutoring center
Offer
advice if asked but do not tell them what to do; give suggestions about how to
handle the problem
Encourage
your student t o make an appointment with the course instructor if he/she is
having difficulty in a course
Send a
care package or card (e-card will do) to let your student know you are thinking
about them
Important
October dates:
October 8-9 – Mid-fall Recess – no classes
October 12-13 - Homecoming
October 16 – Midterms are posted
October 31 - Last day to withdraw from classes
Emotions your student may experience:
Anxious
(semester is almost over)
Overwhelmed
(major projects or exams often due before or right after Thanksgiving break)
Nervousness
(having to choose classes for next term)
Stressed
(trying to balance workload and social life)
Excitement
(getting to go home)
What you can do to help:
If your
student is struggling with a class or classes, make sure you encourage them to
utilize the tutoring center
Encourage
your student to make and appointment with his/her advisor to discuss courses
for the next semester and to get registered
Listen
to your student
With
the added stress your student may be experiencing, encourage him/her to be
involved in positive, healthy behaviors such as exercising and eating properly
Important
November dates:
Emotions your student may experience:
Scared
(not sure what to expect of final exams)
Sadness
(leaving new campus friends)
Frustration
(with their performance for the semester)
Excitement
(end of 1st semester of college)
What you can do to help:
Encourage
your student to take care of him/herself during this very stressful time,
making sure to eat well and to get enough sleep
If your
student has any questions regarding grades, he/she should meet with the
professor of the class in question
Remind
the student to review the information regarding the time and location of each
final examination
Important
December dates:
December 7 – Classes end
December 10-13 – Final Exams
December 19 – Final grades posted
December 19 - January 6 - Winter Break